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Change Your Mind


This guy. I sure love him. Yesterday we celebrated 4 years of marriage by eating waffles for breakfast and then heading out on a lovely 6 mile hike at Clinton Lake. Surprisingly, this was the first hike we have gone on together since moving to Kansas...our bodies sure felt amazing as we walked in the fresh air outside. We ended it with some dancing in our living room to our songs and then a new recipe--Beef Biryani--for dinner.



This year's song is Change Your Mind  by Sister Hazel. Marshall and I have both made some pretty big changes, for the better, in our individual lives this year and Change Your Mind seemed to highlight these changes. The biggest change has been from me increasing my weight by 27% and regaining my fertility. It was so hard, but he stayed by my side and never let me give up. Through it all, I would often comment on how I wanted to be something else or be different, afraid that the changes weren't going to be good. While I do know that those words were not true, they still snuck in every so often. He always told me I was "just perfect," and to quote the song,

If you wanna be somebody else
If you're tired of losing battles with yourself
Change your mind

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